What Makes a Nudist?

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A comment made on a posting in G+ got me to thinking:  Why is it that some people are irresistibly drawn to nudism while the majority of folks find it to be a strange behavior at best? There are a lot of legal, religious and cultural taboos against nudity, but I think that it never even occurs to most folks to want to run around naked. They take wearing clothes for granted and aren’t discomforted by it at all.  Why is a nudist different?

I can’t speak for others, but I’ve been shedding my clothes whenever possible for as long as I can remember.  Our household was fairly casual for the times, but not outright nudist.  Whenever nobody was home, I was naked indoors or out.  I grew up thinking I was strange, of course, and it wasn’t until I was well grown that I had the nerve to try real nudism.  I was hooked immediately.

I  don’t believe that most folks are like that.  The feeling of wanting to be nude is a peculiar desire separate from the sexual aspects of nudity but deeply ingrained, a mental deviation as it were.  Not a bad deviation, but something different from the norm.  Like those with a deep need to fly, or race cars or climb mountains.  I really don’t think that most people want to be nude or climb mountains but suppress the desire out of other concerns.  They just don’t feel it.  I think most do find nudism agreeable when they discover it, but not as a vital, necessary part of their life which leaves a void when not present.

That, I believe, defines the true nudist from those who simply partake of nudity in the course of doing other things which they like.  Skinny-dipping is enjoyable when nude, but most folks happily put their clothes back on afterwards, thinking nothing of it.  Naked bike ride folks are not nudists simply because the use nudism to make a point, nor are those espousing top-freedom as a right.  They may be naked, but they are so for a reason rather than being nude because they want to be nude.

To me, it’s that deep desire to be nude that makes for a nudist.  The social aspects are secondary, as are all the pleasing sensations that come from experiencing life nude.  Those things are the treats discovered after  one has finally been able to fulfill  the desire that was always there; the desire to be nude and find out what life is like that way.

Well now, here’s a real-time comment that follows upon what was just written.  As I wrote those words… how do I say this?  Ok, I’ve been sitting here in Wisconsin on a cold, rainy winter day in a chilly house wearing long-johns and fluffy slippers writing about the desire to be nude.  We can’t afford to keep the house warm, so for a couple of months now it’s been pretty much clothing-necessary around here most of the time.  But as I was writing about nudism I thought, ‘What the hell!’ and just shed my long-johns!

So yeah, it’s chilly but oh, how good it feels!  Yeah, there’s coldness on my skin, but I can feel it and it feels like life!TThis is a couple years old and I was still bloated from surgery! Honest!

Do you have this feeling of a need to be nude?  Something that comes up often when you think, “I wish I could be naked now!” perhaps while at the market or a fair?  Or walking the dog or even at work?

There are few thing that I would not prefer to be nude while doing; I would be naked always if it was possible.  Is that extreme or is that how it feels to you, too?  Is that what being a nudist means to you?  A desire to be nude that is ‘always on top’ of your mind?  What do you think?  I don’t believe there are any wrong answers, just different viewpoints.  What’s yours?

Right now I’m thinking that being nude in a chilly house is great, but it might just be time for a nice hot shower!

16 Responses

  1. Hi Steve and Angie,

    I found your site early this morning and am enjoying your writing (and resources!). My wife and I live in Seattle and while it might not be as extreme as Wisconsin, it isn’t always warm and dry here. I’ll speak for myself but I believe my wife feels as I do…I would like to live in a warm place and never put clothes on again! I too enjoy being sans clothing as much as possible. Our yard is somewhat private and we enjoy much of the spring and summer basking without clothes. I try to stay naked all weekend and weekdays after work. I don’t think this an extreme way of life at all. We have lived this way for many years and whenever we go on a trip we are sure to find a naturist friendly club or beach. We spent part of our honeymoon a couple years ago at a place called Laguna Del Sol in CA. What a great place! So nice to spend days without clothes! We give each other for our Christmas presents a trip to Maui each year (not at Christmastime but later in the year) and spend most of our time at Little Beach. Put that destination on your to-do list! You will love it!
    Anyway, love your blog and this way of life and I look forward to checking out the rest of your site.
    Thanks!
    John

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  2. A thought provoking post – Do I feel a “need” to be naked? I don’t think so.

    Do I often question my “need” to be clothed? Yes definitely!

    It’s a personal mental attitude slant that ultimately leads to the same end but in my head there is a difference.

    Some years ago I once heard somone say (or perhaps I read it – I can’t remember) that clothing serves two simple functions: protection and decoration. In my opinion, a nudist is someone who (when free from social taboos & legislation) realises that, for the majority of their lives, they rarely need that protection or decoration.

    I don’t see myself as a “fanatic” nudist. e.g. I think clothes are a great idea when it’s cold (protection) and I do occassionally enjoy “dressing up” to go out (decoration) but for the most part I don’t really feel the “need” to protect or decorate myself so that’s how I end up naked. Does that make me a nudist? I dont know.

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  3. I’m with you all the way except that I said ‘desire’, not ‘need’. Two very different things. Clothes can be fun, and nude always is. The freedom to choose would be wonderful!

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  4. We’re thinking along the same lines, Red!

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  5. Hey Red, I just checked into your website, societyred http://societyred.wordpress.com/ , wowser! Great impact with the colors that leap right out when the iste opens. Love the blues and the framing. Going back soon to browse through Seattle some more.

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  6. Thank you, I’m new to blogging and enjoying experimenting with it. Thank you for checking it out and sharing input!

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  7. Now, if you really want to get visitors to your site, you need to add a lot of naked women! 😉

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  8. I have no doubt!:)

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  9. Great post. I can remember throwing my clothes off to run around the house as a toddler – in fact that rush I felt is probably one of my earliest memories. I think you’re right, that it is a desire and a need (you say both in the post, unless you’ve edited it), maybe even something related biologically to skin sensitivity. There are so many people who walk around dressed under the hot sun and “don’t know what they’re missing” because they literally do not “know” the experience nor, apparently, feel a desire or need to know. Ignorance is bliss?

    And there’s another step beyond the “true nudist,” which is folks who not only feel a desire or need to be nude, but also to write about it, paint it, draw it, film it, sculpt it, found a group or park or organization, set up a website… !

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  10. About that last paragraph, I’m not so sure about that… 😉

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  11. It has been pointed out by a fellow blogger (and a far better writer) that I did, indeed use ‘need’ in the post. Most likely that was to minimize repetition, but nonetheless I will defend its use as a more assertive form of desire rather than than a physical requirement, and especially rather than to admit that I may have erred in its use! 😉

    (Don’t ya just hate it when you jot down some thoughts and SOME PEOPLE have to nit-pick like it was English 101!)

    Related: The Nude Scribe http://www.nudescribe.blogspot.com/

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  12. Sorry – didn’t mean to nit-pick 🙂 I guess I don’t see the difference really, that’s all. For me it’s both a need and a desire, can call it either way.

    The day that I write as well as you do will be a happy day indeed. 🙂

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  13. What a mutual admiration society! You can nit-pick; somebody’s got to keep me on my toes!

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  14. BEING NUDE IN ONES HOME OTHERS PLACES WITH OTHER NUDIST-NATURALIST IS THE MOST HONEST PEOPLE IN THE WORLD.WHO CAN BE NATURAL ENJOY LIFE AS IT COME.NO FAKE PEOPLE WHEN NUDE.ITS WHAT GOD SAY ITS PARADISE .

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  15. As always, “in the right company, in the right place, at the right time”! For a while there I did everything listed, except sculpt it. (Didn’t have the resources at the time.)
    Jo

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