Nudist Dating – $ – Love?

All-Nudist has MOVED to ALL-Nudist.com

You see them all the time; they look very much alike, claim to be the ‘largest in the world’ and will connect you with lots of nudists seeking YOU!

Or maybe mostly a lot of guys looking for …something.

You can ‘join’ for free to see what’s there then, if you’re not too smart, spend a lot of money. Hey, maybe it works for you!  Possibly not.

Well, a lot of them are the same ‘dating’ service under different names. In fact, you can even start one yourself!  We did, to our regret.  Seemed like a good idea at the time.

These aren’t scams since they do let you decide if you want to spend money, but they may not be exactly what you expect them to be. Be cautious.

All Nudist ran one of these sites for a time to see if we could make a buck or two.  It appeared legit. We advised folks to join for free but NOT to spend any money, and as far as we know, no one did. Good.

We made a little money ($2 per FREE membership) but after looking deeper into what was really there we decided to drop it. It wasn’t what we thought it was, plus they held off paying us for months (the check is in the mail – really!). Can’t say that didn’t raise some veracity alarms.

In any event, if you’re thinking of joining one of these sites, consider spending the money and starting your own instead! It’s cheaper and all you have to do is buy a website and turn it over to them!

Of course, the more you promote it, the more people will join. Hence the FB pages that post their sites all over Facebook.  We even saw an ad for one of them on a comment board for an article about a nudist pedophile!  Shameless profiteering.  Do you think they care about nudists, or just money?

Go to the website link below and follow a couple more links to see what’s up. It’s interesting, to say the least. And who knows, maybe you’ll become a nudist dating mogul!

As far as the other large nudist dating services, they may be wonderful!  We’ve never heard anything actually good about them, but they might be worthwhile.  Just don’t spend any money unless you know what you’re getting.  Almost everything on the internet with ‘nudist’attached to it is anything but!

‘Nudist’ is a marketing term which targets folks looking for sex-related material.  It’s a terrific eye-catcher and is often used to give non-nudist enterprises the ‘legitimacy’ of nudism.  Don’t be taken in by a name.

But listen, if you’ve got a lot of time on your hands and don’t mind looking aroud, then by all means do so!  You might get lucky and meet some folks worth meeting.  But watch your pocketbook.

If you seriously want to meet someone special, we’d suggest E-Harmony, our ‘Alma-Mater’ as it were.  You can discuss your nudist preference in your profile and are much more likely, in our opinion, to find a fellow nudist love interest and less likely to find a bunch of lonely guys complaining about the lack of women on their dating site!

SuccessfulMatch.com  (the small print at the bottom of dating sites will often lead you, eventually, to the parent company.  This is a big one with lots of ‘affiliates’.)

Recommended:

This particular one has spammed our site over a dozen times:  Naturist Passion

Just had a thought; why don’t you look at those various links then tell us about your online nudist dating experience!  We can learn more from each other than by reading ‘reviews’ about the subject.  Could be interesting.

FYN Spring Break 2012 Video

All Nudist has MOVED to All-Nudist.com!

Florida Young Naturists Spring Bash 2012 from FYN on Vimeo.

What is Nude Recreation? – AANR Video

What Makes a Nudist?

All Nudist has MOVED to All-Nudist.com

A comment made on a posting in G+ got me to thinking:  Why is it that some people are irresistibly drawn to nudism while the majority of folks find it to be a strange behavior at best? There are a lot of legal, religious and cultural taboos against nudity, but I think that it never even occurs to most folks to want to run around naked. They take wearing clothes for granted and aren’t discomforted by it at all.  Why is a nudist different?

I can’t speak for others, but I’ve been shedding my clothes whenever possible for as long as I can remember.  Our household was fairly casual for the times, but not outright nudist.  Whenever nobody was home, I was naked indoors or out.  I grew up thinking I was strange, of course, and it wasn’t until I was well grown that I had the nerve to try real nudism.  I was hooked immediately.

I  don’t believe that most folks are like that.  The feeling of wanting to be nude is a peculiar desire separate from the sexual aspects of nudity but deeply ingrained, a mental deviation as it were.  Not a bad deviation, but something different from the norm.  Like those with a deep need to fly, or race cars or climb mountains.  I really don’t think that most people want to be nude or climb mountains but suppress the desire out of other concerns.  They just don’t feel it.  I think most do find nudism agreeable when they discover it, but not as a vital, necessary part of their life which leaves a void when not present.

That, I believe, defines the true nudist from those who simply partake of nudity in the course of doing other things which they like.  Skinny-dipping is enjoyable when nude, but most folks happily put their clothes back on afterwards, thinking nothing of it.  Naked bike ride folks are not nudists simply because the use nudism to make a point, nor are those espousing top-freedom as a right.  They may be naked, but they are so for a reason rather than being nude because they want to be nude.

To me, it’s that deep desire to be nude that makes for a nudist.  The social aspects are secondary, as are all the pleasing sensations that come from experiencing life nude.  Those things are the treats discovered after  one has finally been able to fulfill  the desire that was always there; the desire to be nude and find out what life is like that way.

Well now, here’s a real-time comment that follows upon what was just written.  As I wrote those words… how do I say this?  Ok, I’ve been sitting here in Wisconsin on a cold, rainy winter day in a chilly house wearing long-johns and fluffy slippers writing about the desire to be nude.  We can’t afford to keep the house warm, so for a couple of months now it’s been pretty much clothing-necessary around here most of the time.  But as I was writing about nudism I thought, ‘What the hell!’ and just shed my long-johns!

So yeah, it’s chilly but oh, how good it feels!  Yeah, there’s coldness on my skin, but I can feel it and it feels like life!TThis is a couple years old and I was still bloated from surgery! Honest!

Do you have this feeling of a need to be nude?  Something that comes up often when you think, “I wish I could be naked now!” perhaps while at the market or a fair?  Or walking the dog or even at work?

There are few thing that I would not prefer to be nude while doing; I would be naked always if it was possible.  Is that extreme or is that how it feels to you, too?  Is that what being a nudist means to you?  A desire to be nude that is ‘always on top’ of your mind?  What do you think?  I don’t believe there are any wrong answers, just different viewpoints.  What’s yours?

Right now I’m thinking that being nude in a chilly house is great, but it might just be time for a nice hot shower!

Young Naturist Organizations

YOUNG NATURIST GROUPS:

Florida Young Naturists:   http://www.floridayoungnaturists.com/
Young Naturists and Nudists America:   http://nudistnaturistamerica.org/
Next Gen Naturists:   http://www.nextgenn.org/
Vita Nude:   http://www.vitanuda.com/
Young British Naturists:   http://www.british-naturism.org.uk/youth/
Young Australian Naturists:   http://www.facebook.com/youngaustraliannaturists?sk=wall

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Cathryn Takes it Off at Hippie Hollow

  Here’s a funny, warm first-time story about a young woman’s visit to Hippie Hollow, a 190 acre clothing optional park in Texas.  Follow along with her as she has her first experiences with wrinkled naked old people and frisky college kids!

If you’ve ever thought about trying social nudity but were shy, this may set your mind at ease a bit.  Go ahead, give it a try!

The Cat’s Meow: A Very Naked Holiday!

Hippie Hollow Clothing Optional Park

So, Your Lady Is Shy?

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You’re not alone!  For some reason, it’s usually the guys who get this goofy idea that they want to go run around naked with a bunch of total strangers.  It could be for a lot of reasons, not the least of which might be the idea of seeing a lot of naked women!  No, that’s not entirely fair.  There are other reasons, deeper than that.

Men tend to be more adventurous by nature; something in the genes, no doubt.  Always looking for something different, another hill to cross, a conquest to make.  We also have more opportunity growing up to explore our own bodies (things aren’t hidden, they stick out) and are exposed (no pun intended) to other guys’ bodies in gym class showers and such.  The ladies often get more private facilities in those circumstances.  So we’re more used to seeing naked people, even if it’s just guys.

Women learn that their bodies are ‘sacred’ and not ot be displayed (except for sexual purposes), plus are much more body-concious than men.  We mostly just worry about the size of, well, let’s say our ‘egos’.   Women’s figures define who they are both to themselves and others, and a less than perfect shape can be viewed as a thing of shame.  We hide shameful things, don’t we?

In any event, for whatever reason it’s the guys who decide to try nudism far more often the women, then are stuck with the prospect of convincing her to try it.  What’s she going to think?  Will she think I’m a pervert (probably!)?  Will she run away screaming (maybe)?  She’s religious and there’s no way she’s going to go for this!

Well relax, things aren’t as bad as it seems.  Ok, don’t relax just yet.  You’ve got some homework to do.  We’ve posted a number of articles relating to first-time issues, and there are lots of other sources available.  I’m going to list a few of them here and it’s your job to go to and read every single one.  Yep, every one.  Do I care how long it takes you?  If you really want to pull off this feat, you’re going to need all the ammunition you can get.  By the time you’re done you will be an authority on the subject and can figure out just what approach will work best in your situation.  Promise.  Would I lie?  I got Angie naked, didn’t I?  And onto the internet too!  Talk about a change of attitude!

And I did it before we discovered all this other good suff!

Here they are, go for it and may the Sun Gods smile upon your efforts!  ( save the links to the ones you’ll want to share with her, or just send her here when its time!)

Posts from our files:

First Time Ladies       Several essays of interest to the ladies, plus links

First Time       Items of general interest to beginners, some repeats

Other good sources:

Cheri’s First Time       by the Remarkable Cheri Alexander - Queen of Nudists, Voice From On High

West Penn Naturists       a woman’s first time

AANR – First Time stories   submitted by readers

For the religious, there are a few Christian nudist groups listed in our ‘groups’ category on the right-hand sidebar.  Could be very useful.

A Nudist’s Essay

Angie needed to write a short piece for a writing class she’s taking.  Well, they say you should write about something you know, right?  So she did, much to the amusement of her Prof!  Here it is:

Nothing But a Smile 

   Imagine hiking or biking through a cool, quiet forest in a beautiful state park and emerging in a clearing on the banks of a sandy beach. The river ripples past and around a myriad of ever-changing sand bars and massages your toes as you first test the cool waters. The gentle current soothes and eases the tensions of the day and the warmth of the sun bakes out every last bit of angst you may be experiencing.

Now imagine doing all of this naked. That’s right; buck necked, starkers, the full Monte. Don’t be afraid; it’s not a sin to gad about in the buff. It may be illegal in some places so it’s best to gad in a clothing optional venue. It is so liberating to feel the sun and water touch your virgin skin. You wouldn’t shower with your clothes on so why do we bathe in rivers, lakes and oceans with suits on? Even the word ‘suit’ evokes a staid comment about where our heads are at. We wear suits to the office and the beach. Some will wear tiny pieces of cloth that barely (pun intended) cover doohickeys and thingamajigs but would never clip the string off of that thong or mini bra.

So, what’s a nice girl like me doing in a place like this? I love it. I am a post-menopausal, lumpy, chunky, hairy individual who has never felt less self-conscious about going to a beach in my life. No one stares or chuckles or murmurs asides to friends as you disrobe. You have no idea what walk of life these people come from because our bodies are the great equalizers but should someone become ill at the beach they will usually be attended to by doctors, nurses, vets, congressmen, lawyers, factory and office workers, and possibly a senator.

Those who feel the need to stay covered are called ‘textiles’ by the naturist community and do come under suspicion as to why they are at a naked beach, but all are welcome. Some need a little gentle coaxing but once the deed is done and the suit is off they never look back. Your first time may be harrowing but one you will never forget once you get over that first hurdle.

  Most of these beaches are self-regulated and this seems to work quite well. Cameras are not allowed and have been known to ‘go for a swim’ if reminders are ignored. Anyone who thinks it must be a great place to become more than amorous are warned or nicely escorted out. The beaches are clean and well cared for because they are few and far between and those of us who use them want to keep them that way.

  So, go for it sometime. It’s like jumping from an airplane the first time; scary but life-changing.

Beautiful Nudist Poem

Read it here:     The simple joy, of being nude

Grumpy Uncle Eddie Talks about Nudism

This fella talks about stuff, plus his first time visit.  Haven’t explored his site yet but looks promising.  Check it out.

Grumpy Uncle Eddie

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