So, Your Lady Is Shy?

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You’re not alone!  For some reason, it’s usually the guys who get this goofy idea that they want to go run around naked with a bunch of total strangers.  It could be for a lot of reasons, not the least of which might be the idea of seeing a lot of naked women!  No, that’s not entirely fair.  There are other reasons, deeper than that.

Men tend to be more adventurous by nature; something in the genes, no doubt.  Always looking for something different, another hill to cross, a conquest to make.  We also have more opportunity growing up to explore our own bodies (things aren’t hidden, they stick out) and are exposed (no pun intended) to other guys’ bodies in gym class showers and such.  The ladies often get more private facilities in those circumstances.  So we’re more used to seeing naked people, even if it’s just guys.

Women learn that their bodies are ‘sacred’ and not ot be displayed (except for sexual purposes), plus are much more body-concious than men.  We mostly just worry about the size of, well, let’s say our ‘egos’.   Women’s figures define who they are both to themselves and others, and a less than perfect shape can be viewed as a thing of shame.  We hide shameful things, don’t we?

In any event, for whatever reason it’s the guys who decide to try nudism far more often the women, then are stuck with the prospect of convincing her to try it.  What’s she going to think?  Will she think I’m a pervert (probably!)?  Will she run away screaming (maybe)?  She’s religious and there’s no way she’s going to go for this!

Well relax, things aren’t as bad as it seems.  Ok, don’t relax just yet.  You’ve got some homework to do.  We’ve posted a number of articles relating to first-time issues, and there are lots of other sources available.  I’m going to list a few of them here and it’s your job to go to and read every single one.  Yep, every one.  Do I care how long it takes you?  If you really want to pull off this feat, you’re going to need all the ammunition you can get.  By the time you’re done you will be an authority on the subject and can figure out just what approach will work best in your situation.  Promise.  Would I lie?  I got Angie naked, didn’t I?  And onto the internet too!  Talk about a change of attitude!

And I did it before we discovered all this other good suff!

Here they are, go for it and may the Sun Gods smile upon your efforts!  ( save the links to the ones you’ll want to share with her, or just send her here when its time!)

Posts from our files:

First Time Ladies       Several essays of interest to the ladies, plus links

First Time       Items of general interest to beginners, some repeats

Other good sources:

Cheri’s First Time       by the Remarkable Cheri Alexander – Queen of Nudists, Voice From On High

West Penn Naturists       a woman’s first time

AANR – First Time stories   submitted by readers

For the religious, there are a few Christian nudist groups listed in our ‘groups’ category on the right-hand sidebar.  Could be very useful.